Have you guys noticed people in life that are a complete wreck- I mean completely ridiculous- and totally happy with their circumstances?
I have a second cousin who is surviving by living in a tent behind his parents and digging through dumpsters- This is a child that was the ringbearer at my wedding and had an absolutely golden upbringing-
He is always selling you on his success, he recently said “ I’ll try to leave things better than I found them like when I’m digging through a dumpster I clean up around it “. Even in prison his response was “I got this.”
Another case is a worker of mine- in
Rents a trailer with a basement - (not joking) - yard full of abandoned but once one owner cars , all near gifted to him, each one ran hot or transmission shot ( he rolls back and shifts into gear rolling )
The DHR has his kids taken, the only place in the last house they could play was where the doors swung it was so cluttered-
His finances are dismal despite his income
He wears his hat backwards and hair wild, and is just a walking train wreck of disorder-
Oh, and he has no problem doling out life and business advice, even has some good things to say - all the while unable to own a home, keep a vehicle going or get past living week to week, at an in income over 50k a year. And - is 100 percent sure he is doing well.
Have you guys seen this trait? Is this new?
And all this leads me to another point- Whatever happened to being able to take advice. Whatever happened to good old fashion criticism that made people want to change-
Everybody stresses to be positive and to be kind and to be gentle and everything else....I remember years ago people were told to get their act together and would often respond- not argue their wrongful position.
Is it me?
I have a second cousin who is surviving by living in a tent behind his parents and digging through dumpsters- This is a child that was the ringbearer at my wedding and had an absolutely golden upbringing-
He is always selling you on his success, he recently said “ I’ll try to leave things better than I found them like when I’m digging through a dumpster I clean up around it “. Even in prison his response was “I got this.”
Another case is a worker of mine- in
Rents a trailer with a basement - (not joking) - yard full of abandoned but once one owner cars , all near gifted to him, each one ran hot or transmission shot ( he rolls back and shifts into gear rolling )
The DHR has his kids taken, the only place in the last house they could play was where the doors swung it was so cluttered-
His finances are dismal despite his income
He wears his hat backwards and hair wild, and is just a walking train wreck of disorder-
Oh, and he has no problem doling out life and business advice, even has some good things to say - all the while unable to own a home, keep a vehicle going or get past living week to week, at an in income over 50k a year. And - is 100 percent sure he is doing well.
Have you guys seen this trait? Is this new?
And all this leads me to another point- Whatever happened to being able to take advice. Whatever happened to good old fashion criticism that made people want to change-
Everybody stresses to be positive and to be kind and to be gentle and everything else....I remember years ago people were told to get their act together and would often respond- not argue their wrongful position.
Is it me?