I’ve got an idea I’ll throw out because it may get some better ideas.
The flared protector needs to be made independent of pin length and the only way I see that happening is if the protector was positioned by the rear face of the receiver. Possibly a magnet on the top surface that would hold the protector in place against the receiver, I picked top because in my mind it’s least likely to get an extreme angle of pull and it could easily be labeled Top.
Then ramp the protector down so the shackle still has space for the pin. Possibly have a minimum pin depth required.
No disagreement but the issue remains that it can't be done with a 3/4" pin depth. The eye of the shackle and the support for that still sticks out further than the minimum engagement distance for the flared protector. They can't live in the same space.