Went to my fave Lebanese hole in the wall for Schawarma tonite. Loud, obnoxious asshole blaring away at the next table. Thank Goddess he STFU when his food arrived. Just reminds me of how much I'm tired of being in this country around Americans.
We lived outside of the US pretty much the whole time (with short visits) from 1984 to 2008. The first thing I noticed when we returned was that nobody seemed to understand or respect personal boundaries in any way any more.
Personal relationships, business, public comportment, there was very little respect for boundaries in any area of life and relationship. I don't think it was like that up to the early and mid-eighties, at least not in my sphere.
I commented that to a dentist friend who had been living and working stateside during that period and he told me I was crazy. Then about six months later he apologized and said that he realized I was right. Like the frog in the pot of water, he just had not noticed it until I called his attention.
I think some of that depends on where you are. People are different in different areas of the country. The contrast of Minnesota “nice” and southern hospitality is one I can think of.
The CCP Plandemic made it scads worse.Definitely, but I am talking primarily about a change that occurred in a fixed geographical region and culture as well as on a wider scale. Even from city to city, especially from city to town, there will be differences in some basic social behavior, but there are still certain boundaries that were always universally acknowledged and respected, like the one Zorba mentioned, or people not expecting that their needs be put before everyone else's just because, or just not being publicly belligerent.
No, what I'm talking about, what I observed, went way beyond that.
The contrast of Minnesota “nice” and southern hospitality is one I can think of.
Do people really not look out for each other anymore? My son's generation seems to be more aware of the social contract we have with each other than the kids in their 20s-30s.
Essential tremors??
I have them and am taking propranolol and it helps some......
Around here it seems to be a rural-urban divide. In the bigger cities, people lack common decency. Outside of those urban areas, classic "Southern cham" still exist, strangers still wave when passing, although that has dwindled down to minimal, but small talk with a stranger is still possible.
Same here in Mexico. In the city, the younger kids, by and large, act the same. Here in the small village I live in, a youngster will generally get up to give an oder person their seat, and if they do not it's probable that an older person will tell them to do so.
It's not universal even here, though. A few months ago I took a bus into town. At a subsequent stop an older lady got on. I'm 62. I waited a moment to see if a younger man would get up, but no one did. I gave my seat to her.
did she sit down in your seat? a lot of women refuse
Yep, because they're "strong and independent"
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did she sit down in your seat? a lot of women refuse