Another clue for the group,
I notice when starting the Jeep the sound is present immediately upon startup right before the first ignition, but goes away or is at least drowned out by the sound of the engine. I noticed this when i started it this weekend but i don't have enough starts to confirm it everytime. This noise on startup and return when shifting into gear in my mind may indicate a damaged flex plate.
Any holes in this logic? I'm taking my wrenches home at lunch to see how easily i can remove the inspection plate.