I would put lift and tires at the top of the list if that is where you are going to end up. Control arms are not usually necessary up front, unless yours are shot (which apparently yours are), or you start getting over 3" of lift and 33" tires, which most likely will cause drivetrain vibration issues. Adjustable control arms are usually needed to fix the rear pinion angle once you get too sharp of a rear drive shaft angle from too much lift for the stock setup. There are other components also needed to address that.
If you're not going that tall on the lift, oem style control arms cost less and will do the job fine.