Welcome to the forum
@Bfryant44.
We here can be little more than helpful especially expending someone else cash. I guess is a TJ thing...
Seeing your list and your budget I will strongly suggest you this kit.
https://dpgoffroad.com/product/old-...duct/old-man-emu-ultimate-tj-lj-wrangler-kit/I do use it and abused on my LJ, Drive from CLE - OH to Raush Creek, Windrock, Gulches, AOAA, Jeep Beach play for the weekend then drives back w no issues. Never use adjustable CA until I get a set of Core 4 x 4 Tier 3 set to try on, this yield no difference until i went to heavy off-road so no think on it much as if you need it, just upper rears will suffice.
This is a complete solution, bolt on on a weekend, OME that you mention, and good set of instructions if you are mechanical inclined will help you to set it in correctly. Plus me and other can help on the process. Dirk on DPG is very helpful especially when selecting the spring rate.
For the BML use spacers like the savvy ones and kept your OEM body mounts.
Research on TC skid drop, TJ’s tend to be picky and you may need to add a washer or two. No need to change the skid for now but plant on, that’s a subject for another time.
You may like to start researching on a TC shifter cable. Not necessary but once you lift the body and add MML angles change and that linkage turn stubborn. I do use Advance adapters but is many others.