Worst ball joints ever for our TJs, that's why when there are ball joint threads there are several of us who will warn against installing Synergy's ball joints.
Especially that their knurled outer surface totally effs up the inside ball joint seating surface, as you experienced, which then causes them to need to be replaced. Or by using something like a nail punch tool and a BFH you might get away with heavily dimpling the inside surface where the new ball joints mount to give them a tighter fit.