So I’m looking at a 99 Ford Explorer v6 4.0 8.8. Would this be a good swap axle?
You'll find some people love the idea of a 8.8 swap, while others don't.
I am in the camp that wouldn't personally ever do this swap.
A built Dana 35 will handle 35" tires just fine, so unless you plan on running bigger than 35s (which you shouldn't unless you have DEEP pockets), this axle swap is a waste of money IMHO.