Neither of us can help the way we are. Trying to be someone other than who you are doesn't do much except cause anxiety. That and if I thought doing the little that I did for you would change how you treat me, I wouldn't have done it.I realize that you and I are wired different but I do acknowledge that you have a lot of experience. I also appreciate your help you have given me and I also (while sometimes being a smart ass) do try to help people also and pass along the good gesture.
I just spent a couple of days trying to explain to someone who would have no part of it that I really did not have a choice but to buy him a set of brake pads of his choosing since he was unable to make ours work. He refused to get it.