Hello! Another Philly Jeeper here! I'm near Media in Delaware County.
I went through the same experience you did: drooled over wranglers since I was in high school until I finally convinced my wife to let me get one for my 40th (last week!). The opportunity presented itself when my neighbor decided to sell his TJ and I jumped on it.
I've had it for about 6 months at this point (I bought it well before my birthday with the agreement that I would get nothing else the day of), and I've loved every second of it. Every time I drive it, I must look like a dumbass with a sh*t eating grin from ear to ear - my Jeep wave isn't two fingers, it's Ace Ventura leaning full out the window waving both arms. Sometimes I go to my driveway and just stare at it, not believing it's finally, actually mine. That is to say, if you've been thinking about this for as long as I have, then there's a significant level of appreciation and fulfillment that comes with the acquisition, which has more than covered the initial cost of the Jeep as far as I'm concerned. I never regret getting buying my rig; zero buyer's remorse.
With little prior mechanical experience, I've wrenched on it a bit since I got it: new shocks, new brakes/calipers, tranny fluid, lights, etc., all of which I learned from this forum. I actually just installed the Misch Big Boy Brackets this weekend (HUGE IMPROVEMENT FOR ME @ 6'2"!!). There's compounding fulfillment in learning about the truck, getting my hands a bit dirty, and feeling like I'm saving money and building skill in doing all that. In addition, I've been able to work on the truck with my dad, brother, and kids, so it's become a family affair and bonding experience.
In short, it's not just a Jeep - it's the gift that keeps on giving (the good kind). The honeymoon doesn't end with the initial purchase, it sustains, and the jeep is a vehicle (pun intended) for other, different experiences.
Alternatively, convince your wife that she's
allowing this to happen, and then she can take ownership of all the happiness that comes after
Good luck!