Im positive squeezing them will grab the relay pins, not sure how long they will last before they opens again thought. Slight squeeze in case they are very weak.
Ok...just a quick update ( I think it’s a little frustrating if after getting the great advise folks don’t update)
I took the TIPM apart only as far as to get at the pins. Tightened em up and now the relay is snug.
The bad news...it didn’t seem to make a scrap of difference still got the fuel issue so new fuel pump it is.
Thanks everyone