That would be understandable on the Ram when hauling and towing but you are overinflating them on the TJ. 50 psi cold is max psi at the load rating on the sidewall(2220 lbs or whatever it is). You do not air em up to 50 psi unless you are at max load.
Psi in tires rises once warmed up so you will be running them at 55-ish, exceeding the max psi. Running the tires at max psi will also result in rapid wear of center tread and harsh ride.
I bet your tires will last much longer than what you have been experiencing if you drop it down to 30.
But do whatever works for you.