These Jeeps can be a real pain. Sometimes I go over the edge with frustration. It’s like a real love relationship. I hope you get it sorted.
The most frustrating thing for me is I can take the TJ, with 186K on it, out and it is absolutely perfect. Handling, braking, and ride are better than any other Jeep I've had. I climb in the LJ, with 105K on it, take it for a ride, then come back home ready to stick a "For Sale" sign on it. I'll get it sorted out eventually, but, as you said, the process is not a pleasant journey.