OP you are beating this tire and wheel thing to death!🤣
I get it though. I spent some time mulling it over too and even posted a poll here while I was deciding (https://wranglertjforum.com/threads/which-wheels.62504/
I started with cheap, black D-windows and I liked the look with my green TJ. But, like you and others have found, they are heavy, hard or impossible to balance and have a lot of lateral run out. All of that lead me to aluminum. @Jerry Bransford
has posted numerous times his similar journey and also noted the steel wheels don’t stand up to rocks well either. I looked at the exact wheels you currently have but decided I needed a little more offset for a 12.5 wide tire. For me, it came down to ProComp 69 and Ultra 5051.
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I probably would have been happy with either but I picked the Ultras, was satisfied in all respects and haven’t looked back:
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