Okay, I'm ready to wire the sub up. The dealership said it's about the pin position, not wire color... Using triple thick reading glasses, I was able to the tiny numbers on the plug. When I find the color code I wrote down, I'll post here for others.
New Questions:
the sub wires coming out of the sub for the speakers (RR, LR, RF, RR), do I wire them to the corresponding speaker wires coming out of the radio head ?
or, Do they connect to the harness prior to the radio head ?
Or, do I leave the harness as is, plugged into the radio head and splice into the harness ? Meaning, a branch coming off the wire to the sub... looking like a "T".
Thanks you for all the help, I appreciate it, and may be looking for a therapist that specializes in post trauma wire-stress
Ray