In the interest of helping the next guy, here's how it wen't down.
I wound up with 1310 bearing races on both side, this allowed me to scoot the ring gear over far enough to the passenger that I had backlash with the caps installed and no shims (huge air gap on the drivers side) I then measured the gap, installed an according amount of shims and had it bracketed and set with less than 5 trips in and out of the diff (as
@hosejockey61 described earlier).I wound up with .005 backlash, which is a little tight of the 6-10 thou target, but I'm told the RD30 series likes to run a little tighter on backlash and its all I could get with the pattern looking nice. I did wind up with just shy of .250 in shims on the drivers side and none on the passenger, this is a little excessive of what I wanted, but it works.
Things were going swimmingly until in a rush, I over torqued the air fitting (much to my fathers dismay)
So, we have that capped temporarily, taking care to not expose the copper tubing to the elements while I wait on a replacement bulk head kit to arrive.
It's definitely not a professional install, but she passed the test drive and I learned a lot on the way. Thanks for all the help and especially to
@Blackjack for the brilliant bearing recommendation. I'm not sure it is technically correct, but it was the difference in me getting this installed and not.