Hey guys I'm hoping you could give me some insight on where to start with my recently purchased my 04' TJ 5 speed. Although Ive been driving stick for 20 years, the last 10 have been with a Honda CRZ (6-Speed sport Hybrid Geared very low), So needless to say it took a bit of adjusting to my first Jeep. As soon as I bought the Jeep I had all of the fluids changed including the transmission fluid.
So, here's the Problem: when shifting from 1st to 2nd and 2nd to 3rd in order not to grind I have to shift into neutral, pause for a second, then shift into the higher gear. It alsmost feels like there's a delay in the clutch engaging. Also, Reverse is very hard to "Find", especially when the engines cold, and sometimes pops out of gear.
So tell me please how badly I'm Screwed
and how much it's going to cost me 
So, here's the Problem: when shifting from 1st to 2nd and 2nd to 3rd in order not to grind I have to shift into neutral, pause for a second, then shift into the higher gear. It alsmost feels like there's a delay in the clutch engaging. Also, Reverse is very hard to "Find", especially when the engines cold, and sometimes pops out of gear.
So tell me please how badly I'm Screwed