IMO, the only "performance" mufflers out there that don't sound like shit are Magnaflow. I've never had one that's obnoxiously loud, which is odd because you can typically see through them, and they're stainless. I have one on my Jeep only because it was there when I got it, and while it's a bit louder than I'd like, it's not bad enough to prompt me to do anything about it. OEM mufflers are usually nice. Aftermarket stock replacement mufflers, in my experience, usually sound like shit. Pretty much every time I ever need to replace a stock muffler due to damage or rot..which is rare, it gets a magnaflow anymore.
If you want to see how much you'll hate it, pull the post-cat oxygen sensor out and take it for a lap around the block...it'll sound like that but x10.