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Look at mine and look at yours
On pin 1 I have a white and a red on pin 2 I have browns and grounded, and pin 3 greens.
Did you try that? On your picture you weren't using your white at all. Also just for you information the wires with the heat sync are coming from the 3 wire that the 12volt guy gave me and the others with the red spade connectors are the ones coming with the winch.
So the red wire is coming from the switch and connecting to the white winch wire. The browns go together and ground. Then lastly the greens match.
Basically if you want the winch to go on way power goes to pin 1 if you want it to go the other way power goes to pin 3.
I understand your solenoids don't have pins but the colors should tell you what your solenoids do. So yours doesn't say pin 1, but you should have a white winch wire. Connect your 12 volt guy red wire to that? Do you see the pattern?
You may be confused with your switch because it is a 5 wire it sends ground back and forth of which is not necessary. You are already sending power back and forth.
Take the winch switch out of it. ground the brown and send power to one of the other two and see what they do. I am assuming your winch wires are the red, green and brown. Here is what you try, don't use the switch at all. Get a power and ground and put the ground on the brown then put power on your green only, then the red only see if it does what you expect. Lets start there!
Feel free to pm me and I will walk you through this.