I registered purely so I could comment on this.
I just got myself a project TJ with 110k miles on it, and obviously all original suspension, torque on the bolts, and untold amount of crap in all the threads. I fought with that bolt (also driver's side) for a long time before googling and finding this thread. I dunno why it was so hard to drill that flag, but once I made it through and into the control arm...dang it came out easy with a punch to hold it still. Passenger side came out no problem. The drilled flag is going on my trophy shelf along wit the top-of-shock nut that came out in several pieces.
Thanks!