Leaking transmission fluid! Help!

Hey, guys! My girlfriend’s 95 YJ is leaking tranny fluid, and I’ve got no idea where to even start. It’s an automatic with a 4.0 L engine.
Here are some pictures of the leak! It’s only been sitting overnight. Is there an obvious place this is coming from? I’ll take all the help I can get.

bonus points if you can help with the other problems too!
The Jeep goes into 4 high well, but I can’t get it into 4 low. The lever doesn’t want to go back that far. Also, sometimes it stalls out at idle. I was going to try cleaning the intake and replacing the idle air control valve, but if you have any other ideas, I would love to hear them!
Thanks guys

CharlesHS said:

I believe you need to post this in the YJ link below.

@Chris ....

https://wrangleryjforum.com/#jeep-wrangler-yj.3

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I know, I know. I just don’t have an account for the YJ thread, so I just posted it on my TJ account. It should be essentially the same though, right? Not much changed between 95 and 97 other than the headlights and coil springs.