Wow you made the right choice,

but I have to be honest it sounds like you did not do your homework on this trail. Driving from So. Tahoe to the trail head is a 2 hour drive. Then doing the Rubicon in one day would be a very very long but doable day if you were running front & rear lockers, 35's, started at 6:00 am, had no breakdowns, no time spent winching, not waiting for other jeepers coming the other direction, or getting stuck in front of you, you might get through by dark.
Also leaving 3 school age kids in a hotel room alone while you went out jeeping are you F'ing kidding me that's soooooooooooo irresponsible. Anything could happen out there or on any trail, let me guess you also did not have a satellite phone or an InReach to contact your children if anything were to happen.


. It's so easy to get stuck on the Rubi for hours and hours and possibly over night, and when doing this trail by yourself even worse