Ha. This thread seems to be mostly about Commiefornia refugees! lol I think I've narrowed down our 'escape' options to either the Reno area (lots of friends there and an outdoor lifestyle that fits me) or the Boise area, specifically Eagle. We were blown away about the friendly people, cleanliness, no homeless encampments at freeway off-ramps, and just the vibe of the whole area (plus we also have friends around there).
Selling a house in Silicon Valley makes real estate just about anywhere else seem stupid cheap so we won't need a mortgage but I actually don't want a big house, would love to just have a 3/2 small house with a 3-4 car garage and a shop. If my job becomes permanently remote, we're set financially. My wife works in the semiconductor industry and there would definitely be opportunities in the Boise area since she worked with one of Micron's C-level executives at another company, but she's also 6-7 years from retirement. At the end of the day, we just need to get out of this zoo and are probably 1-5 years away from moving. Enough is enough, life's too short to put up with bs.