The plugs actually come apart and the wires with the ends will come out. The reason it was suggested to go easy on your plug in the Jeep is because it is a pita to align all the pins and get them in the proper spots while reassembling the plug. You can harvest any wires with the ends and install them into your existing plug to fill the blank spots if yours does not have wires for the the cruise present. Like I said check your existing PCM plug for wires at C4, C5 and C32 if you have them they are the wires you want and you can track them back or tap into them by the PCM. If you don't have them them you will need three wires and the ends from the spare plug you have and will need to drill out the plastic plugs in the corresponding spots for C4, C5 and C32. Unplug the plug from your PCM prior to drilling the plugs out. When you pull the wires from the spare plug you can use one of the blank holes to guage the drill size you want for drilling the plugs out.