In researching myself without making any calls I found that the H&R were progressive springs like they use in BMW's, and they get as good of reviews as the OME. I only really went OME, because of the slight more lift, but looking at this data, It looks like I would have been in the same boat with either spring. Although I bet the H&R are built for a stockish TJ where the HD OME's might have slight advantage having new bumpers and winch maybe. Not saying anything against H&R and it probably doesn't make any difference but you will get the same spring weather you add weight or not where as OME you have a choice of two different springs.
Also OME weirdly offers two different front shocks but if you order the kit you only get the light duty front shocks, but since I went heavy duty all of the way around I ordered the heavy duty front shocks. Another good reason to order in pieces rather than a kit. It was actually cheaper to order it in pieces than it was the kit and the kit had parts I didn't need like the new steering stabalizer. I already have an OME one.