Lockers- Rear- Eaton E-Locker, solid, reliable, fairly cost effective, simpler hook up.
ARB- solid, reliable, a bit more costly due to needing air to actuate.
Front- Detroit, solid, reliable, and is invisible in 2wd. If you have snow driving in mind, put a selectable up front.
Axle shafts- Revolution if you want US made and don't mind paying for it. If you want cheaper, get their Discovery series. If you are ok with their Discovery series but don't want Revolution then get axle shafts from Nitro, Yukon, G2, Ten Factory, Alloy USA, etc. because they are all the same import stuff and it doesn't matter which box they come in.
Circle K is the predominant gear set sold by Revolution. If you get 5.13's or 5.38's for the Dana 44, they are all Circle K because they are the only ones that make them in that ratio so again, find the box color you like and order them that way. Circle K is a very good gear that most gear setters really like.
If you don't care about Circle K, then again, pick the box color because most of the gear companies swap gear sets around when they run out and they just put them in their boxes. Be aware that Yukon's premium and standard gear sets are the same part in different boxes with only the warranty being different.