Yep, here a write up I did from another Jeep forum, hope it helps! Would you rather purchase a couple of my spares for cost plus postage?
Success! Thanks to a forum tip, I headed to LKQ (pull a part junkyard) today with the goal of finding some connectors. I found some. The trick is to look at the battery tray for older Cherokee, Durango, Ram. There is a sensor there, looks like a round piece. You can turn it and pull it up. You are looking for ones that are wired directly, without a connector. Follow the wire from this sensor to the wiring harness and you will find a male and female connector of the proper size. I came home with 6 of each as the charge you for the whole connector.
I got them home and tested them with a multimeter and a 9V and the all worked. I picked my favorite two. I disconnected them and put the female halves aside. I connected them to the female connectors on the Jeep and verified that the switch stalk was working properly, which I am happy to report it was.
Then I removed the lights and soldered and heat shrink wrapped the connection to the sensors. I put split loom over the wire for a clean look. I installed them back on the Jeep and plugged them in and WALA! working fog lights off the multi-function stalk!