Okay so an update: this morning I checked the oil cap as I usually do and noticed it was different than the everyday regular check up. I think this confirms the oil and coolant are mixing. Still don’t know if it’s head gasket or head cylinder issue but to be honest I wasn’t suprised and honestly a bit relieved that the issue is showing up more and thankful for everyone who helped me and glad I caught it early on. If anyone can link me to a cylinder head so I can order one and start this dreadful process