Clicked on this because I was worried it was a suicide thread! Glad it's just Zorba being Zorba.
As a recent expat, I can tell you, living somewhere is a LOT different than visiting there.
Establishing residency, getting a driver's license, figuring out the damn trash schedule, learning where to buy what and dealing with the language barrier is a lot different than a vacation where everything is curated and arranged for your entertainment.
I'm enjoying Sicily (of course, im the kind of guy that can enjoy filling sandbags in 115 degree heat), but it's got its own issues.
Not a day goes by that I don't wish for some of the conveniences we enjoy in America.
Took nearly two weeks to get a bike part I could have gotten overnighted to me in the U.S., had to fabricate a bolt head after looking at about 6 different hardware stores (chain and private) for a 10 X 100 mm cap head bolt. I could have picked one up at a dozen hardware stores within 20 miles of my home in the U.S. Amazon doesn't overnight here.
The food is good, and its clean of additives and chemicals, but certain things are really tough to come by, especially steak, pork and decent chips...I know, I'm not supposed to eat that stuff, I rarely do, but once a month or so, I want a fat juicy GRAIN FINISHED steak. It's all grass fed and lean over here. Bleh.
It has its pluses and minuses. One plus is dirt cheap travel. We pay about $50 for a commeter flight to Rome or Milan, or Istanbul, or London. Also, the freedom driving and having nobody on the phone or distracted by their big gulp and whopper is nice. Lane splitting and filtering on the bike is encouraged here. I'm ruined for driving in the states.
I can tell you for sure, we're going to be happy to head back after a few years.
Think hard about making the move without an escape route back. It is nice, but when you LIVE here without a tour guide or a planned activity every day, its not so glamorous.