I’m no expert, but
@Jerry Bransford and
@Chris (hopefully one or the other will chime in for you) had a lot of good advise for me and my own idea of the perfect rig. First you should answer the following:
Are you going to stay with the 33’s forever?
Are you going to keep the engine stock?
What kind of off-roading do you intend to do?
Do you have or want lockers?
What is your budget?
As I understood, once you have the answers to these questions, you have a solid foundation as to where to begin, and what options are out there. You have a few options as mentioned above. Ford 8.8, Dana 44, or the super 30 & 35 kits.
For myself, I’m running 35s with the 4.0 with stock axles. I don’t dare do any real Offroad stuff. Service trails only with extreme caution and some prayers lol! I’m looking into the Revolution Gear and Axle super 35 kit at the moment. They are offered separately or with a locker. From what I’ve seen, the common lockers offered are ARB, Detroit, and Eaton E-Locker. I’m pretty sure that Revolution Gear offers a 27 spline axle as well. I’m not sure about how much strength they add... If I understood correctly, the “super axles” are 30 spline, and there are no open differentials that are 30 spline. So in order to run the super kit you have to replace the the diff with a locker That accepts 30 spline axles. I know that chromoly is recommended for the front axles, and 1541h for the rear Dana 35. As the chromoly Dana 35 axles are know to wear from the bearings riding on the axle.
As to your question of which to do first... I’d assume the rear since it sees the most consistent load, when you combine on and Offroad. But I’m curious about this as well.
Edit: here is the thread I am reducing to.
https://wranglertjforum.com/threads/new-from-monroe-co-indiana.18808/
Good luck! Hope this helps in some way!