As a father of 4 daughters (ages 14 to 7), I'm perfectly fine if dating no longer exists.
Nope... doesn't work like that. Hate to tell you it's worse. I have an 18 year old daughter.
They go right past dating to random 'hookups'. It's prolific. It's what we called making out.. but it's first, second and third base in one shot. As best as I remember, making out happened after courting a girl, asking her 'out', then a few dates and then MAYBE you got a kiss. Now it's right to third base even if they just met, and might never meet again.
If this goes good though, the next move is "what's your Snap". Everything happens on SnapChat. They send messages to all the people in the SnapChat list usually with a picture of something. Anything. A shoe, half your face, the top of your head, your half-done Starbucks drink. I think it's kind of like putting out a vacancy sign.
If they have an interest in getting to know someone (whether or not there has a been a previous hookup), the snap might include "hey".. If you get a "hey" back, it's moves you to 'talking'. If you don't get an answer (and you're a girl) the drama starts.. If your message was read with no response you were left 'on open' which is the kiss of death. If a person never responds you've been 'ghosted'.
As best as I can tell, there is nothing like going to the movies, mini-golf, dinner or hanging out. Dates are archaic. It's all about the hook-up. You can hook-up with someone for a long time. Same goes for 'talking'. And there is no exclusivity at this point. There is also zero privacy... where you are and who you are with is constantly broadcast via SnapChat. More drama.
My daughter is a freshman in college and I am blessed that she has major morals, but for most of the kids there is no such thing. Having random sex is common. In college they sleep in each others dorms and pretty much anything goes. If that's how it was when I was young, I missed it.
After months of this it might get more official and they agree to date. What we called going steady. Much more disposable than it was when I was young. And it's anti-climactic since they have likely already done everything we waited for until we were going steady.
Kind of mind bending.
My source tells me that everything is about efficiency, convenience and tech-powered solutions. But it seems many of the teens are starting to experience hook-up fatigue so maybe there is a chance that dating isn't entirely dead..