Low range in the sand is a very good idea, your clutch will agree. The wranglers often get into the choppy smaller dunes that require a lot more technical ability than the big dunes. The short wheel base is suitable for that. The bigger rigs avoid them like the plague. Large dune climbs take speed first, and often by the top of the dune you are running out of power and a downshift at the wrong moment can stop you dead in your tracks. That can suck in many unfavorable ways, not just loss off cool points.
I think you would find your rig much more capable in the sand with 4.56 gearing. I should have gone with 4.88's for the desert, but 4.56's were better for all around usage. The six speed and 32's would probably be better with 4.56. If your Jeep is primarily an off-road toy, go with 4.88s.
Purely for fun, every Friday a group of us get together and spend 8-10 hours wrenching. We are pretty well set up for all things TJ, but I am also working on Mercedes. It is extremely hard to find a quality, competent shop here to work on anything.
I spend a lot of time correcting what the big name 4x4 shops have F'd up. I can't think of a shop I'd trust with a regear or any but the most basic work. We do our own re-gears now. We can do it wrong much better than the guys that claim to do it right.
The job isn't hard, it just takes very careful measurement and attention to detail, and a willingness not to get frustrated when it takes you ten+ attempts to get the gears mated perfectly.
BTW, it is worth considering bracing up your front axle tubes at the same time. Lots of people have bent thier front axles due to unforseen airborn antics. Welding in reinforcement can help. I suppose it all depends on how aggressive or accident prone you are.
BTW, wrenching with us is not a spectator sport. If you are not inclined to get dirty, no need to attend. Even the women who attend are twisting a wrench with gusto. It is a very social event with lots of teasing, eating, and comraderie. We all help each other and have no patience for folks not willing to help others. We vote them off the the island.
Art