So I basically went through the exact same thing. Burned up three M8000 motors. Upgraded to a 9.5xp.
Was constantly getting check gauges.
Had an Optima Yellow Top.
Upgraded to the big 7 cables... should have made my own, not terribly impressed with the product.
Went through three alternators. The first one was whatever stock one the PO put on. Second one was a Durango 130a built by Zilkowski's Auto Electric in Springfield, OR...that one burned up a diode bridge and was a constant PIA. Current one... excuse the pun...is a brand new 130a sourced by Zilkowski's. Apparently I cracked the frame last summer reinstalling the engine in the new frame.
And so far that one is working beautifully.
I can't stress how important tight connections are.
I also have three rules... always try and winch off the second wrap off the winch...which usually leads to rule 2...use a snatch block or recovery ring or three because it helps run out more cable...and three...observe the duty cycle on that motor.
I was trying a fourth rule... maintain 2k rpm when winching but that seems to not be necessary per some forum discussion.
Here's the last hurrah on alternator 2...you can occasionally here the check gauges chime.
This is recovering a Ram truck someone ran off a steep forest service road... failed to get it out, then cut up and dismantled the truck while failing to get it out.
Last summer...WABDR...make sure your bolts are tight! Fuse to alternator in lieu of fusable link...
When that Optima dies I'll probably go with a group 65 AGM. Zilkowski's says they have a good battery supplier.
-Mac
P.S. Can't stress how much I love Mr. B's winch ropes. Wizard Recovery gear is awesome. Not totally sold on the safety thimble...prefer tying a diamond knot on the end of my line and making a soft shackle.
P.P.S. You absolutely need the right sticker(s) on your winch. Absolutely imperative to proper function.