Sorry to hear of the loss of your husband, and I wish you all the best with the sale of the LJ. Lots of good advice here on the best approach to moving it. Also, don't let anyone bully or B.S. you. It's sad to say that there are plenty of guys who would immediately assume that you don't know what you're talking about (regarding vehicles) because you're a woman. I'd like to think that kind of nonsense is less prevalent within the Jeep community, but who knows. Anyways, it's your vehicle right up until the time that it isn't. Don't let it go until you're satisfied with the deal.
Again, I'm sorry for your loss.
Again, I'm sorry for your loss.