Like I said, didn't realize you're in Prosper (Y'all had Chris Ross Football HC for a while) , but I could get there this weekend to buy them if you don't, ha.
You get an upgrade on both Jeeps, and a regear is in order either way, I've never had an automatic, but ideally you'd want more like 4.88's with 33's, but heck going to 4.10's will be an improvement, and you get to make an improvement on your daughters, get hers to a 44 rear, and sell her axles, I would think $500 for both is what a quick search showed. That nets $900 for this upgrade to both Jeeps, better gears and lockers for you, and better gears and slight upgrade rear to a 44 on your daughters.
For $900, it's a no brainer, seems like any move I made on my TJ was that or more, ha.
for the 32RH & 33's, 4.10 is what gets recommended around here most of the time. I have a new set of 4.56's (for a 30/44) and a Dana 30 TrueTrac that I was strongly considering using on mine. 4.56 is probably a little too much for the 33's, but I got all that for about $200, so I have some margin there to further offset my costs.