It's not just Chris recommending 5.38 gears. It's completely clear your guy absolutely has no clue on what gearing works best for the 42RLE transmission and 35's, stop listening to his whining and just tell him to install 5.38 gears and to shut up about it. Too many of us are happily running 5.38 gears and NO they do not run too hot, he's just talking through his *** on that. 5.38 was extremely and thoroughly tested before being brought out by several very high-end gear companies including Revolution Gear and Yukon who both are having Circle K manufacture them. Circle K is the best gear manufacturer in the world at this point, there are none better. So don't worry about "offending" that shop guy, just tell him what you want and that you want 5.38 gears without further argument. I certainly wouldn't have gone with 5.38 if I had any qualms about it not being able to hold up without problem to lockers and the big rocks I enjoy crawling on.I keep reading what you’re saying Chris, but I also don’t want to offend the guy. I went in there and told him I wanted 5.38 and it went from there. I don’t have mechanical experience so I need a relationship with this shop.
Again, stop worrying about offending him, he just doesn't know what he's talking about where 5.38 gears are concerned. And even 5.38 is barely enough for 35's with the 42RLE transmission. I went from 4.88 which was lugging my engine to 5.38 which even improved my mpg by just over 2 mpg due to it having stopped the engine from lugging. But as just said, even 5.38 is barely adequate... I even would have gone one ratio lower than 5.38 if it was available.
One final repeated comment... do not worry about offending that guy. Just tell him to shut up and install the 5.38 gears or you'll find a different shop to install them. Really.