For your transmission and tires, 4.88 is the recommended ratio.
See this thread for additional details:
https://wranglertjforum.com/threads...angler-tj-lj-and-other-re-gearing-faqs.17063/
(If you think you might go to 35s or you're willing to sacrifice a bit of fuel economy for a little more torque and control, 5.13 is also a decent option.)
Consider installing locking differentials and a Super 30 and a Super 35 kit at the same time.
Locking differentials give you a major advantage off-road, as big as going from 2WD to 4WD again. When engaged, lockers force both wheels on that axle to spin at the same speed, something an open differential cannot do. This means when you get stuck, you can spin all four tires and not just two. It also means that you still have full traction even when one or two tires have little or no contact with the ground.
The most popular and versatile lockers are selectable lockers. Eaton Elockers and ARB Air lockers are the most popular. Elockers are simply wired to a switch, and easy to install. ARB lockers require a compressed air source to operate. Selectable lockers do not affect handling on the road.
The Super 30 and Super 35 kits increase the size of the axle shafts on their respective axles, providing significant additional strength. This goes a long ways to reducing the odds of an axle shaft snapping and leaving you stranded.
It is best to install all of these items at the same time if you think you'll want them.
Doing gears and carriers separately will cost you on the order of $1000 extra in labor. Every time the carrier is changed, the gears have to be reset. Likewise, every time the gears are changed, the carriers must be removed and reinstalled. Every time the spline count of the axle shaft changes, the carrier must change, and the gears must be reset.
The Super 30/35 should be more than strong enough for 33s or even 35s, unless you are doing very extreme things. Even a standard Dana 30/Dana 35 would be fine with mild use.