My grandpa was a radioman in the Navy on the Sarasota in ww2. If he did anything particularly heroic it's lost to history because he didn't like to talk about it, so most of what I know is what I can find on the internet. One story I know about was having to go search the wreckage for survivors and top secret radio equipment after the USS Mt Hood exploded in harbor and destroyed several nearby craft; to make sure the Japanese didn't get their hands on it. He saw some gnarly carnage that he could never unsee.
Well said. I never pry. If someone wants to talk, certainly willing to listen because that tells me they are the kind of person that needs to talk to heal-
But everybody deals with things their own way the best they can.
I heard one famous war photographer say that war was just murder.
I know from films and pics I’ve seen it is insane, with a lot more ways to die than you might think. Like you ammo belt gets hit, etc.
