The billavista gear bible is correct in that you need to have zero lateral movement when seating the carrier/locker. You can add additional shims at final assembly for a higher preload. If you're comfortable with the preload then good. As far as pinion preload, don't worry about getting to spec just yet or 100 ft/lbs etc. Tighten the pinion nut until the bearing has resistance (not too much). It becomes a "feel" thing after you have set up several sets. The goal is to prevent lateral or in/out movement.
I was looking through all of your pictures from the previous post. I think your 53 "appears" to be the best depth. But the consistency of your pattern still bothers me. Look at each tooth and the pattern is slightly different...some have marking compound diagonal lines where others don't etc. Try more pressure on your ring gear when running the pattern. When I use a drill and a glove, I let the gear make 6 or 7 revolutions in each direction. The more pressure you apply, the better the pattern markings.
I was looking through all of your pictures from the previous post. I think your 53 "appears" to be the best depth. But the consistency of your pattern still bothers me. Look at each tooth and the pattern is slightly different...some have marking compound diagonal lines where others don't etc. Try more pressure on your ring gear when running the pattern. When I use a drill and a glove, I let the gear make 6 or 7 revolutions in each direction. The more pressure you apply, the better the pattern markings.