First, those wheels.... woof. Second, those tires will wear fast and are overly expensive, which might work in your favor. I would pick up cheap (factory?) 15" wheels with between 3.75-4.5" of backspace. Then get a nice set of 31" tires to go on your 15" rims. Then sell that huge chrome tire/wheel package for as much as you can. Then we can direct you to a shorter lift that fits your tires nicely while still looking like its ready for adventure.
some things to note, no matter what the 4 banger will never feel like anything but just that. For your described use it can still be peppy and fun, just gotta shrink it and put it on a diet.
just my 2 cents.
Edit: just to add, I only say get "cheap" wheels because of the budget. If you'd rather get it over with, Just get whatever 15x8" wheels you like that are aluminum and the 31" tire of your choice. That would at least get it moving around a lot easier, even if it looks silly while you sell off the old one's.
If you do like the wheels and tire size, etc. then your only option is to re-gear.