What's you guy's take on the pavement ends tops? It looks like the company is owned by bestop and they're like a third of the price. They seem to have good reviews on Amazon just at a first glance.
I have one, and I am really happy with it. I couldn't justify spending $500 - $1,000 on a top, but I'm also pretty particular, so I looked for a cheaper-but-well-reviewed top and landed on the Pavement Ends top. It's actually got "Pavement Ends by BesTop" on the tag, though they don't have Pavement Ends products directly on the BesTop site that I could find.
Check out my cover photo on my profile — that's the top in June 2020. It's been on since August 2016. It was outside every day until November 2016 and has been in the garage since then. It looks just like the day I got it, but like I mentioned, it's mostly been in the garage. I have hard slider uppers that go on my half doors, so I got it with no doors included. The exact top I have is listed in my mods on my profile, and the last time I looked it was about $260 without the upper door skins.
It replaced the OEM top that made it 15/16 years. The OEM top's fabric had degraded/faded and after a light bit of hail I noticed a few holes on the top that forced me to order a new one. I can't tell much difference between the OEM top and the Pavement Ends top. If it's thinner, I certainly can't tell it by road noise or behavior. It does all the same things at the same speeds that the OEM top did and the road noise is the same. The old top would puff up when I drove over about 35 mph with the hard slider uppers on, and the PE top does the same.
I'm not sure how you're riding, but the force of the air when you have the back three windows in and no upper doors on at about 40MPH and up will make the OEM or an aftermarket OEM-style top flap and puff up like crazy. At about 50 MPH when I have my hard slider upper doors one, they start to gap at the side due to the force of the air and make a flopping or whistle noise on occasion. Nothing will be perfect in a shoe box on wheels with vinyl and plastic flaps for a top. lol
Sounds like your top isn't connected well at the 2 bow (the one in the middle top, behind the front seats), you mentioned the velcro is shot. I would get some black gaffer's tape (it's kind of like really strong fabric-like duct tape that doesn't leave any residue when removed, even when it gets hot) and tape along the entire velcro seam to keep it closed tight around the frame. If you are going to replace the top anyway, it can't hurt to try, and the black tape won't stand out. BTW, I used gaffer's tape to cover the holes on the roof of the OEM top for two months before the new top came in, and it worked great.
I think you would likely be happy with a PE top if you are seeking an OEM-style replacement on a budget that's better than your current top. That being said, get it on amazon prime, take note of how it's packaged, and if it's not an improvement over your current top, box it up and send it back.