AndyG has cash and is already tracking her down to buy it first.
Hey I saw that, this thread already got started with one divorce, you guys are gonna rurn my life.
Several things come to mind-
First, buy the jeep and get that out of the way, make sure its dependable and he can get to work every day. He will also appreciate dropping the top, turning on the radio and riding around your beautiful state this summer, clearing his head, de stressing and resetting. It may become a good project also once he gets his wind and the garage time can be a real pleasure if he is so inclined.
Second, and I mean this, my heart goes out to them both, marriage is hard and divorce is probably harder.
Third, good on you for still being a dad even though older, kids need a little more time to get adjusted these days it seems, I did. My parents’ faith in me meant a lot when I was getting back on my feet 30 years ago.
Lastly, and It doesn’t matter what has happened- tell him tough times don’t last , tough people do. I would rather not see a divorce, but it happens every day and it is not the end of the road. I have met many people that come through it and know what they are looking for next time and end up really happy, really satisfied. Smooth seas never made a skillful sailor.
Check in on him, text him, have him over to dinner, do whatever you can to
see that he is ok and not letting any kind of depression or bad feelings get the best of him...he was looking for a girl when he found her and he will be fine.
Get him to be a member on here, we can walk him through any issue, plus give solid dating, marital and financial advice (ie, date a girl that if you marry you dont have to hide the jeep parts bill from

, or better yet, helps you pay for them).
His best years are ahead of him, as fun as my teens and 20’s were, life really didn’t get rewarding for me until my late 30’s, and honestly it was 15 years after that til I started making really good money, and part of that starts with not spending it faster than you make it, as well as making more good decisions in general.
Didn’t intend to write a novel, occasionally a thread on here speaks to me at a heart level, like when I see a parents’ love and a decent person just asking us so they make a good decision to help their child. And I like that you are doing it in a way he still needs to help himself....that is critical to his long term success.
All the best,
AndyG
Wrangler TJ Forum Counselor at Large