Women are usually into spending an inordinate amount of money (in our eyes), on a pair of shoes for every moment, it's constantly shoes, shoes, shoes or hair, nails, massages, they don't see that the same as us and our guns, jeeps, tools, or whatever. It's a double standard . Can drive one nuts. If they ever see it you are good to go. Or just split some money between yourselves, buy what you want, and move on.