I do this more often than anyone could know. It works like a charm every single time. Getting forgiveness now has gotten to the point where it's almost effortless!@Chris reminded me of the old adage, "It's easier to get forgiveness than it is to get permission." Just buy the parts without telling her! I bought my OME springs on Sunday. Still haven't told the wife. I think I'll just wait till they show up at the door...LOL. This will be fun...Then employ her to help me install them. LOL!