6 speed, personally I would go 4.56 with 33s, and 4.88 with 35s. The 6 speed doesn't have as tall of an OD as the 5 speeds.
If you have 4.10 now, 5th gear is exactly the same ultimate gearing as 6th and 4.88 gears (1.00×4.10 = 0.84×4.88). So if you want to test out 4.88 gears, simply leave it in 5th gear and pretend 6th doesn't exist.
With 4.88 and 35s, though, you'll have three usable gears on the freeway. With the 4.10s, 3rd gear is still too deep to use at 75+, but 4th with 4.88 is very useful between 70-80 mph for hill climbing and passing, as it gets you right around 4500 RPM, which is right around peak power for the 4.0.
With 5.13 and 35s (or 4.88 and 33s), though, you would lose the ability to use 4th at higher speeds.