If I may add my 2 cents,
You can save a lot of money by not going down the SYE and DC route. Although it would be the "right way", it also is the expensive way to do it. Especially if you are just trying to get away with a moderately sized lift. I recently put on Zone's 4.25" combo lift kit on my TJ and I'm loving it. It mainly includes a 3" suspension lift, 1.25" body lift, and a 1" motor mount lift. I had driveline vibrations at stock height but solved it with putting in new U-Joints, now I'm vibe free. So if you're going for a 3" suspension lift I recommend just getting a MML instead of going with the SYE and DC route. A perk of a MML instead of a T-Case drop is that you don't have to drop your skid plate and lose clearance. This lift allows you to clear 33"x12.50" tires without having to spend money on adjustable control arms and such. The look of my Jeep actually turned better than I thought it would after the kit and tires were installed. This is just all in my recent experience so other may have other experiences with this type of lift, but I've heard others having good results from these types of lifts. IMHO it is one of the best balances between going down the 35s route and doing it properly (which requires a lot more money, time, and effort) and being significantly bigger than stock, while not having to break the bank and your back. You don't have to go Zone, but it was what I found best.
Here's a link if you are interested:
Zone Off-road 4.25" Combo Lift Kit
TL;DR:
To get decently lifted on the cheaper side get a 3" SL, 1.25" BL, and 1"MML. Vibe free (for me at least) and a pretty nice kit IMHO.