Where do I start with my TJ?

Good advise here, especially as you say you are still a PVT... don't be tempted to buy cheaper build parts because of budget. Take care of PM items first (consider the above a basic -10 manual), wait until you get that E4 - stay in post housing and you will have some build $$...

And if you're near Juarez - don't take the TJ across the river!!!
Sounds good I’ll keep in mind what you said about the river haha. Thanks for the help!
 
The thread linked to above will give you a good list of everything you need.

4” suspension lift
1.25” body lift
Regear
Lockers (lunchbox up front/Detroit rear)
Adjustable front and rear trackbar
SYE/DC
Set of CA’s
Big brake system
Currie currectylinc steering
Front disconnects or antiRock
More...
Appreciate the help, 35s seem like too much for me budget wise and time wise, thanks!