As things progress, thought I'd post an update.
Well I have desires and thoughts around doing the work myself... yet for me to do it means a long process... and need space... I could handle the time, but I've not space right now with winter coming up... so started talking to local shops. Decided to work with TORC Motorsports.
The current plan... In a couple weeks head into the shop to get body work sorted. Then on to the fun stuff. Right now we're talking about the Metal Cloak 3.5" short arm long travel setup with the RockSport shocks and a 1.25" BL. Doing a 8.8 swap, gear the whole thing at 4.56, adding in ARB Lockers front and rear (Originally looked at Eaton but can't seem to get that for 4.56), SYE and drive shaft upgrades. I'm sure I'm missing some miscellaneous items, but that is the gist. Then I can put on the 35's or so I hope.
This is a good plan. I would suggest going straight to 35s for your build. I made the mistake of building around the plan of only having 33s and no SYE, smaller lift, but the 8.8 swap (for me... every Jeep is different) led me to need more lift (I had previously the 2.5" OME lift) to more easily clear the gas tank skid that the bigger 8.8 diff cover was hitting. This then led to SYE, DC driveshaft, adjustable control arms and 4" lift. From there, I was pretty much more or less ready for 35s so I went ahead and added a 1.25" BL, Big Brake Kit from Blaine and Currie steering. I had regeared to 4.10 when doing the axle swap and lockers (again with the plan to only run 33s), so I am now a bit under-geared.
Save yourself the extra expenses and build to 35s. That is, at least, my opinion from my experience.