Just for grins?
If one of the door switch wires was shorted (YL/DG) to ground, it could help isolate where the problem is.
It does show that with #4 fuse removed, the PCM is removed as a possibility for causing the problem, by itself.
And, this shows that the delay and/or 20 minute auto-shutoff is incorporated into the PCM.
Thank you all for your input, this issue is driving me crazy. Here are some answers to questions above:
1) no new holes drilled anywhere, especially where it could touch a wire.
2) no aftermarket alarm system, this is an 03 X basic, vanilla, stock Jeep
3) I can see that C2 is a good connector to disconnect in troubleshooting, any ideas where it is located?
I've tried to eliminate things in the wiring diagram path for the courtesy lights. I removed the door switches, without the switches the lights should go out. I removed the multifunction switch, if it was shorting out, disconnecting it should allow the lights to go out. If I'm wrong in these assumptions, please tell me.
Last night while reviewing the wiring diagrams, I too looked at the ignition switch and wondered it it could be the problem. The only other issue in my mind is the darn computer (ECM) if it somehow got fried by the arc from the positive terminal to ground when I accidentally arced my wrench between the positive battery terminal while installing the winch (direct to battery, no switches or extra wiring, since disconnected while troubleshooting)
As a result, I have two questions for the wisdom of the group. First, can I disconnect the ignition switch connectors to eliminate it from the light issue? Will taking it out of the circuit potentially allow the lights to go out if it is the problem?
Second, can anyone definitely tell me that the ECM is involved in the light timing issue (delay and fade on exit, as well as battery saver 20 minute function)?