All I know is it is 100% bullshit. Some days I have to practically lift her out of bed first thing in the morning, other days I have to help her into bed. The conversation of "what hurts the most today?" was old and busted about a week in. Notice it isn't "do you hurt?" because that is a given, it is just which place and how tolerable it is or isn't. Or my fucking favorite. Do you need the cane, just some help or the wheelchair today?